SINGLE PARENTS-WHEN IS IT OKAY TO LET THE BOYFRIEND SPEND THE NIGHT

This issue is one that you should be careful about because when you have children you cannot bring everyone around your children. I know longer have children at home but when I GOT MY DIVORCE I would never bring a guy to the house unless our relationship developed into something serious. I think if you are just having casual sex with this person, he should never be seen at your house. Always go to his place or get a room. I feel it is a matter of respect for yourself and your children. Your children should not wake up to a different dude every week. That is not the message we should be sending to our daughters and sons. I truly believe if you develope a relationship with this person then you can start to bring him around the kids. DO NOT BRING EVERY TOM , DICK, AND HARRY around your children- just for the simple fact that it doesn't look good for you as a woman. I say the best time is when the two of you have decided that you guys want to see each other on a regular basis. WHAT SAY YOU?